Welcome back to the Bitter Men Club: where bitter guys, the men with grudges against women for thier failed relationships unleash their classic nonsense like clockwork. 🎶Remember that song “Lonesome Loser” by The Little River Band? 🎶 Thats what I had playing on loop in my mind as I read some of their disgusting comments.
💡Key Highlights:
- The petty and predictable ways bitter men show up in comment sections
- Common behaviors of men who blame women after a breakup
- How bitterness leads to emotional manipulation and control
- Why some men isolate themselves instead of healing
- What women can spot (and avoid) in emotionally stunted men
As a content creator for a news app, I don’t get the luxury of blocking these guys who clearly have nothing better to do than flood comment sections with their salty takes. It’s always the same story: men bitter about relationships, men who blame women, and men with grudges against women, all serving up word vomit that adds zero value. It’s like watching a bunch of lonesome losers desperately trying to make noise, but all they’re really doing is showing everyone exactly what low quality “men” they are.
Most content creators don’t even bother reading the comments. I can see why. If you’re thin-skinned, this stuff would mess with your mental health fast. But my skin’s thickened over time, so today I’m sharing some of the more revealing gems from the bitter men crowd.
What’s seriously disturbing isn’t just the filth, (they’re literally drowning in it) but the nonstop generalizations and the dehumanizing objectification of women. I called this out before in my piece on male fragility and its ties to relationship abuse, where bitter men’s toxic nonsense was on full display. Spoiler alert: they didn’t disappoint.
Bitter men make it way too easy to feel disgusted, and to straight-up hate them. It all starts with the revolting, boorish things they say, and then they act surprised they’re stuck lonely, sad, and drowning in crippling self-esteem issues.
Not once do they look in the mirror after a breakup. Nope, it’s always “her fault.” Men with grudges against women move the blame like a bad magic trick.
It doesn’t have to be this way. But I’m not here to fix them. I’m here to let their hate speak for itself. They’re perfect cautionary tales for women of guys to avoid at all costs. A man stuck in this bitter mindset won’t make a good boyfriend or husband. Until he commits to working on himself, every relationship is doomed to crash and burn.
Since there’s zero moderation, these bitter guys say whatever the hell pops into their little brains with zero f@cks given. No bans, no personal consequences, and thanks to anonymity, they let it all fly with no holds barred.
Below are screenshots of comments left on one of my articles about why some divorced women over 50 are choosing to live solo. Some of these gems come from my “regulars”… those charming fellas who seem to have a permanent stick up their ass whenever women are involved.
Bitter men have a knack for showing up on my articles like moths to a flame. Why? So they can emotionally unload on any woman brave enough to be in the comments.
They know these women are here looking for advice, support, or just a break from guys like them. Yet, here they are, the men bitter about relationships, dragging their venom into the conversation like it’s some twisted hobby.
Bitter Men Example #1
See what this “charismatic flirt” going by the very fitting screen name of “Al Bundy,” had to say about my article on women over 50 choosing to stay single. This one turned my stomach.
….. Continuing on with more from the “Bitter Guys / Woman Haters Club….”
Some thought processes behind the comments are strange to me. Look what Boyd has to say. Is he insinuating the single women were “bragging” about being single in my article? A stated preference is not a brag, but whatever. I think this was his way of giving “advice” in a roundabout way? 🙄
Bitter Men Example #2
Welcome to the “cat lady” corner, because no conversation about women choosing the peaceful bliss of solo living is complete without this tired, oh-so-original jab. Seriously, you’d think these guys have a quota to hit on recycled insults.
Then there’s Arthur, who nails the bitter guy stereotype of men who blame women by throwing out tired generalizations and completely missing the point. Spoiler: WOMEN DON’T WANT THEM. Women don’t NEED them.
These emotional blockheads make it easy to see why women left them and are thriving solo while they keep floundering. Why on earth would any woman want to be within a mile of these creeps? Do they even realize how they come across, and that thier behavior is why she left? It’s not a good look.
Look here, more love from the likes of “Richard the Enchanter.” He’s another of my regulars that doesn’t seem to have much to offer women, or anyone really, and it shows. He’s the type of guy that gets dumped. No sane woman would want him.
Did he mean he would take glee in watching a woman get eaten alive by a bear on pay per view??
We’ll see more from this card-carrying member of the bitter guys club in a bit…
Of course, the “closet full of toys” comment is back to pay a visit from more bitter men. This low-brow still thinks that all women think about is sex, 24-7, the way he does. He’s got nothing else going for him, and probably a wham-bam-thank you-mam type … a 15-second legend in the sack.
Mr. Dao thinks he’s an expert on women. A real life “Casanova”.
I can tell that Cassandra is soo “impressed.” I bet she could hardly contain herself after getting an eyeful about women basically being called c@m dumpsters.
Where, do these incels, get these ideas that women over 50 are useless because we don’t get pregnant anymore? What is this, Little House on the Prairie? Women’s worth is still tied up in how many kids we can give a man? Yawnnn. 🥱
Yeah, that will send the ladies running…
….far, far away from this smooth talker!
Earlier, I mentioned that we will hear again from this “ladies man” named Richard. This lonesome loser never lets me down, like he obviously did the any of the poor women in his off-screen life. When it comes to men with grudges against women, this charmer takes the cake! 🎂
He says women over 50 only have “used up box” to offer a man.
🤮Does he kiss his mother with that mouth?? Ew.
🪐What planet are these a-holes from?
Then we have “Truth Teller”, another of my regulars, and might I mention, he thinks he’s a real heart-throb, who tried to turn the power back to men “shunning marriage.” No, genius, the article was clearly about women shunning marriage.
Really? Is that why way more men jump right back into a marriage, after divorce, than women? I wonder where this genius pulls his stats from. A simple online search states this to be true…. especially men bitter about relationships and women.
What do you think their chances are of finding love again?
Slim to none, if you ask me.
While these comments are disgusting at best, I think they are also telling as to what goes through a bitter guys mind after he has been dumped. It’s highly, highly, likely these bitter men who blame women for their failures are a product of a walkaway wife scenario, due to being a clueless husband, although there is no way of telling for sure. I sure see a lot of complaints from men saying they “didn’t see it coming” which most women know is simply BS. The signs were there. No woman leaves a happy relationship.
Women tell them until we are blue in the face about what we need in a relationship, they choose to ignore her feelings, because in a bitter guys mind, if he thinks the relationship is great, then so must she. So why would ever leave “His Excellency.”
I’ve written extensively about it. These men aren’t blindsighted, they are just willfully blind. Men with grudges against women find it’s much easier to blame the person who is no longer around to tell her side of the story.
Men who blame women for the relationship’s demise show absolutely zero self reflection on their part. Playing the victim role is much easier.
How Bitter Guys Cope After Being Dumped
When men who blame women get dumped, they often twist their pain into some seriously toxic views about women. Here’s how that usually plays out:
✔️Blame Game: They pin all their misery and relationship failures on women – as if that’s the whole story.
✔️One-Size-Fits-All: They take one bad experience and use it to stereotype every woman they meet.
✔️Grudge Holders: They stew in resentment and carry grudges like a badge of honor, poisoning any chance of a healthy relationship later.
✔️Power Trips: To avoid getting hurt again, they try to control everything in their next relationship; that never ends well.
✔️Trust Issues: They get so suspicious of women’s intentions, they’re basically waiting for the other shoe to drop.
✔️Objectification: Some reduce women to nothing more than looks or surface-level traits, forgetting they’re actually dealing with real people.
✔️Avoidance: Bitter men often avoid forming deep emotional relationships altogether, too scared to get vulnerable or face rejection.
✔️Revenge: Some men bitter about relationships might go after women with emotional, or worse, physical, revenge as a messed-up way to cope with their pain.
✔️Self-Pity: These bitter guys can easily slip into self-pity mode, playing the victim and blaming women for all their problems.
✔️Isolation: Men with grudges against women sometimes choose to isolate themselves completely, preferring a lonely life over risking emotional pain.
✔️Manipulation: Bitter men aren’t above using manipulative tactics, like guilt trips or emotional blackmail, to control women and hold on to power in relationships if they meet someone with zero self respect to even pay them the time of day.
✔️Cynicism: Men bitter about relationships often develop a cynical outlook, convinced all women have hidden agendas or can’t be trusted.
✔️Projection: Bitter guys tend to project their own insecurities and flaws onto women, blaming them for issues that really come from within.
✔️Hyper-Criticism: They get hyper-critical, obsessively pointing out women’s flaws just to make themselves feel better or more “in control.”
✔️Jealousy: Jealousy runs rampant with these bitter guys, especially when women succeed or show independence, prompting them to belittle or try to bring them down.
Final Thoughts on Bitter Men
Bitter men aren’t just annoying, they’re emotionally exhausting. These bitter guys show up in comment sections, conversations, and relationships dragging their grudges like emotional baggage they refuse to unpack. Men bitter about relationships often choose blame over growth, projection over reflection, and control over connection.
Whether they’re the type who isolates themselves, manipulates others, or just sits in the corner throwing sour grapes, one thing’s clear: men who blame women for everything wrong in their lives aren’t ready for real relationships. They’re just broadcasting their own pain and insecurities, hoping someone else will carry the weight.
The truth is women see right through it. We recognize the red flags. And while bitter men are busy pointing fingers, women are moving on: thriving, healing, and choosing peace over chaos.
So on the off-chance that you’re a bitter guy reading this, and any of this hit a little too close to home, maybe it’s time to unpack the salty instead of doubling down on it.
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