Red Flags How men test you
2. He cancels plans last minute and watches how forgiving you are.
4. He jokes about other women to see how you’ll react.
6. He gets slightly colder to see if you’ll chase.
7. He says something disrespectful “as a joke” to see if you’ll call it out.
8. He flirts online or in front of you to measure your self-control.
9. He stops initiating to check if you’ll pick up the slack.
10. He hides things “to avoid drama” and waits to see if you’ll let it slide.
11. He brings up his ex to trigger your insecurity.
12. He ignores your boundaries once to see if you’ll reinforce them.
15. He gives half effort and watches if you still act grateful.
16. He acts unavailable until you start lowering your expectations.
18. He mentions “space” to see if you’ll beg for clarity.
20. He repeats the same disrespect after you forgive him. That’s not forgetfulness, it’s confirmation that you taught him it was safe to do so.
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